By Army Sgt. Sinthia Rosario
101st Sustainment Brigade, 101st Airborne Division
BAGRAM AIR FIELD, Afghanistan, Aug. 7, 2013 – As children, twin
brothers normally do everything together, sharing each other’s dreams
and planning what they want to be when they grow up. Some slowly grow
apart as adults, while others maintain their strong brotherly bond.
 Identical
twin brothers Army Capt. Matthew N. Mayor and Army Capt. Mark E. Mayor
at Bagram Airfield, Afghanistan, June 28, 2013. U.S. Army photo by Sgt.
Sinthia Rosario (Click photo for screen-resolution image);high-resolution image available. |
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Army Capt. Matthew N. Mayor, brigade logistics and operations
officer with 101st Sustainment Brigade, Task Force Lifeliner, and Army
Capt. Mark E. Mayor, brigade intelligence and current operations officer
with 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Cavalry Division, have remained
close.
The identical twin brothers from Kenosha, Wis., grew up
playing the same sports, went to the same college, and now are both
deployed here.
“It’s like we decided to go ahead and do it
through our ROTC first,” Matthew said. “We wanted to get a college
education and then go ahead and serve. That was probably one of the
motivating factors -- to do something together.
“I couldn’t be
happier, couldn’t be more content, and more inspired to work with this
great team that I’m part of and he’s part of,” he continued, “so it’s
kind of like working for the same organization, which is the Army as a
whole.”
As they sat talking about the choices they have made, Mark reminisced about the month they both went on active duty.
“I remember that very month, when both of us went on active duty July
4, 2009,” he said. “That weekend prior, we said our goodbyes to the
families and we had a pre-Fourth of July celebration.”
Their
military orders took them to Fort Sill, Okla., for the Basic Officer
Leaders Course. They both were stationed there during that time, though
they knew they eventually would go to their separate branch schools.
In the beginning, the twins said, they were a bit hesitant about
joining the service, and thoughts of being separated caused a bit of
anxiety. But, they added, they knew they would be all right in the long
run.
“It was difficult, it was challenging, but I’m sure every
soldier goes through the same thing. … But eventually you cope. You
learn to use the shared media, Facebook, Skype, etc.,” Matthew said.
“You quickly adapt and just overcome any feelings of separation and anxiety,” Mark said, “so that passed after a few months.”
As children, the brothers played baseball together. Mark earned most
valuable player honors as a pitcher, and Matthew was a home run hitter.
“We’re mirror twins -- I’m left handed, and he’s right handed,” Mark
said. “That’s our major difference between each other physically. I’ve
always been a little better of a pitcher. His strong suit is soccer.
He’s always been better at soccer than I was.”
The brothers noted
that although they are not from a military background, they have a
supportive family. Their mother worries, they acknowledged, but they
added that know she supports them and is proud of their service.
“Our family is very patriotic, very proud, and very supportive, and
[Mark’s] wife is very involved -- as well as my mother, father and our
family -- in supporting the troops and sending care packages,” Matthew
said.
The brothers admitted they walked into the military
lifestyle without fully knowing what was ahead of them. Mark said their
views have changed entirely since joining the Army.
“After a
couple of years, [when] you go back to your hometown, you don’t feel the
same. You’re forever changed by the training, by the new experiences,
by the new people you meet, the people that you work with,” Mark said.
And he likes the way things have played out. “To be with my twin
brother here in Afghanistan, serving in the Army, serving the country
that I love, it can’t get any better than that,” he said